Tag: personality

The Advantages Of Being A Sensitive Person

being a highly sensitive person, emotional person, sensitive people, taking on other people's emotions, this stuff is golden,

I have begun to really notice how my emotions can sometimes switch by the hour or even by the minute. After I had been to a very nerve-wrecking second interview, My SO and I decided to stay in town for a bit. Having just moved into a new apartment, we thought we’d make the most …

How To Be Cool

how to be cool, this stuff is golden, best qualities to have, be yourself, be weird, be kind, be polite, what being cool really means,

I was not the coolest kid during primary nor secondary school. I tried my very best to always fit in, which I think made me stick out even more. Trying to be like the girls I was friends with never really suited me and I always felt like a bit of an outsider. This insecurity …

You Are The Man

you are the man, love letter, masculinity, being a man, what it means to be a man, this stuff is golden,

When you doubt yourself it hurts my heart a little bit, though I am conscious that when I call myself fat, ugly, stupid (or all three) I’m probably doing the exact same to you. I am grateful that you feel you can share your insecurities with me, even if those insecurities make my ears want …

I Didn’t Feel Brave, I Felt Cowardly

depression, online abuse, revenge porn, anxiety, brave, cowardly,

I’ve been called ‘brave’ a lot recently. I’ve also been called ‘stupid’ within several victim-shaming comments. Whether it was within the comments section or on a Twitter RT, I must admit that to me, I have not been brave. It certainly wasn’t brave of me to absolutely collapse as soon as the negative comments came …

Things I Learned From You

personal essay, relationships, ex, SO, letter,

I learnt that being myself was okay. It was enough. I could be my own person and still be liked, adored and even loved. I could be whoever I wanted to be. You were bold enough to be true to yourself, and so could I. We could hold hands walking down the street, sit outside …