Tag: confidence

Finding Purpose, Feeling Lost

finding purpose, being pregnant, unemployed and pregnant, finding your purpose, self belief, putting it out there to the universe, speaking to the universe, positive thinking, this stuff is golden,

I don’t really know how to define myself anymore, and it’s causing some of my self-hate demons to rise again. I feel lost and in need of a purpose. Maybe I feel this way because life is happening at a lightning speed rate. A lot of major changes are about to occur (even without the pregnancy), …

What Motivates And Scares Me

motivation, motivations for goals, being too scared to start, anxiety, making plans, this stuff is golden,

Sometimes the things that motivate me and the things that scare me blur, leaving me in a state of confusion and anxiety. I want something (motivation) but I don’t know how to get it (scared). It keeps me in the middle ground, the safety zone.

I’m Jealous Of The Selfies You Take

jealous of selfies, selfies, instagram, selfie culture, facebook, social media, body dysmorphic disorder, confidence, this stuff is golden,

Instagram is the new Facebook to me. I deleted my original Facebook account after I realised how shitty it was making me feel. I would scroll through hundreds of posts, photos, etc. and feel so much envy that I would feel like a loser in comparison. Instagram is becoming like that for me. I scroll …

20 Pieces Of Harsh But True Life Advice

harsh but true life advice, tough love, life advice, honest life advice, no bullshit life advice, this stuff is golden,

Life is hard. Sometimes we get stuck, sometimes we get overwhelmed. Sometimes it is easier to just plod along. In those kinds of moments, some tough love can be just what the doctor ordered. Yes, a few words aren’t going to solve your problems completely, but they might give you that motivating kick up the …

The Sunshine Makes Me Feel Insecure

body dysmorphic disorder, bdd, insecure about appearance, why i dont like the summer, sunshine makes me nervous, feeling ugly in the summer, this stuff is golden,

I’ll let you in on a little secret of mine: I don’t really like the summer. The summer brings sunshine (at least sometimes, for those of us living in the UK) and I don’t like that. Well, my Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) doesn’t like that.